Pricing your coaching, consulting, or freelance services is part math, part psychology, and part knowing your worth. The biggest mistake women make? Undercharging from the start. Whether you charge hourly, by project, or via retainer, your price should cover your actual costs (including taxes, benefits, and time off), reflect the value you provide, and allow you to build a sustainable business—not just pay the bills.
Let’s Talk About the Money Mindset Problem
Here’s the uncomfortable truth: If you’re undervaluing yourself, it’s not just your bank account taking a hit—it’s your entire professional reputation.
When you charge too little, clients assume you’re inexperienced, desperate, or not very good. When you charge appropriately, you signal confidence, expertise, and value.
So let’s talk about how to actually figure out what to charge.
The Pricing Models: Which One Makes Sense for You?
Hourly Billing
Pros:
- Simple and transparent
- Easy to calculate what you can earn
- Client knows exactly what they’re paying for
Cons:
- You’re capped by hours in the day
- Penalizes efficiency (work faster = earn less)
- Intensive time tracking
- Clients may scrutinize every minute
Never charge hourly for coaching or consulting. Charging by the hour or by the unit can work for some types of service, but it’s an absolute no-no for coaches and consultants.
Monthly Retainer
Pros:
- Predictable monthly income
- Encourages long-term client relationships
- Less time spent on sales/acquisition
Cons:
- Requires clear boundaries about scope
- Can become overwhelming if managing multiple clients
- May not work for project-based work
Packages/Programs
Examples:
- 6-week business strategy intensive: $5,000
- 3-month career coaching program: $3,600
- 90-day leadership development package: $7,500
Pros:
- Focuses on outcomes, not hours
- Easier to increase prices (package value vs. hourly rate)
- Client commits to a process, increasing completion rates
- You can structure your time efficiently
Cons:
- Requires upfront clarity about deliverables
- May need to manage client expectations about scope
Value-Based Pricing
This is the most advanced pricing model but also the most lucrative when done correctly.
The Math: What Your Rate Actually Needs to Cover
Here’s where most people get it wrong. They think: “I need to make $60K a year, so $60K ÷ 2,080 hours (52 weeks × 40 hours) = $29/hour.”
Wrong.
The Real Formula
Here’s what should be in your calculation:
Monthly Expenses: All your business and household expenses including:
- Rent/mortgage
- Utilities
- Food
- Transportation
- Insurance (health, business, life)
- Business tools/software
- Professional development
- Marketing expenses
Taxes: Self-employment tax (15.3%) + income tax (your bracket)
Benefits:
- Health insurance
- Retirement contributions (aim for 10-15%)
- Paid time off (3-4 weeks)
- Sick days
- Emergency fund contributions
Billable Hours: Here’s the reality check—you may want to divide your gross salary goal by 49 (instead of 52) to compensate yourself for 3 weeks of “paid time off.” Or you may want to work just 4 days a week instead of 5—in that case, you might divide your weekly rate by 32 hours instead of 40.
And remember: Not all your hours are billable. Account for:
- Business development/sales
- Admin work
- Marketing
- Professional development
- Bookkeeping
Most consultants can only bill 50-60% of their total working hours.
Sample Calculation
Let’s say you want to earn $80,000 in take-home pay:
- $80,000 target income
- + $20,000 for taxes (25%)
- + $12,000 for health insurance
- + $8,000 for retirement savings
- = $120,000 total revenue needed
If you work 48 weeks (4 weeks off) × 32 billable hours per week (80% of a 40-hour week accounting for non-billable work) = 1,536 billable hours
$120,000 ÷ 1,536 hours = $78/hour minimum
So realistically, you should charge $109/hour or more.
How to Set Your Initial Rates
When You’re Just Starting Out
But have an exit plan. If you do decide to use penetration pricing, be sure to have a plan in place for when you’ll increase your prices. This should be a temporary pricing strategy.
Competition-Based Pricing (Use Carefully)
When to Raise Your Rates
The Psychology of Pricing
Price Too Low and You Attract the Wrong Clients
Low prices attract:
- Clients who don’t value your expertise
- People looking for the cheapest option (not the best)
- More haggling and negotiation
- Higher likelihood of scope creep
Premium Pricing Signals Quality
If your rates vary from industry benchmarks, be prepared to back it up. Have a clear value proposition ready.
Package Pricing in Action
Let’s say you’re a business coach. Instead of charging $150/hour, create packages:
Starter Package – $2,500
- 6 weekly 1-hour strategy sessions
- Business assessment
- 30-day action plan
- Email support between sessions
Value: Approximately 15 hours of work = $167/hour effective rate
Growth Package – $7,500
- 12 weeks of intensive coaching
- Weekly 90-minute sessions
- Custom business plan
- Marketing strategy
- Unlimited email support
- Monthly accountability check-ins
Value: Approximately 40 hours of work = $187/hour effective rate
VIP Package – $15,000
- 6 months of comprehensive support
- Bi-weekly 2-hour strategy sessions
- On-demand text/voxer access
- Quarterly business reviews
- Custom templates and resources
Value: Approximately 70 hours of work = $214/hour effective rate
Notice how the effective hourly rate increases with package value? That’s intentional.
Common Pricing Mistakes Women Make
Mistake #1: Pricing Based on Your Own Budget
Mistake #2: Not Accounting for All Costs
Mistake #3: Underestimating Non-Billable Time
If you think you’ll bill 40 hours a week, you’re wrong. Account for at least 20-40% non-billable time.
Mistake #4: Being Afraid to Charge What You’re Worth
How to Communicate Your Prices
Be Confident
State your price without apology, explanation, or nervous laughter. “The investment for this program is $7,500.”
Frame It as an Investment, Not a Cost
“This is a $7,500 investment in your business” sounds different than “This costs $7,500.”
Emphasize Outcomes, Not Hours
“You’ll walk away with a complete business strategy, marketing plan, and 90 days of support” vs. “You get 12 hours of my time.”
Offer Payment Plans Strategically
For packages over $5,000, consider offering payment plans (with a slight premium for the convenience).
When and How to Increase Your Rates
The Nike Strategy
Grandfather Existing Clients
When raising rates, honor existing clients’ current pricing for a set period (e.g., 3-6 months), then give them advance notice of the increase.
What Premium Pricing Actually Looks Like
But most of us aren’t aiming for $1,000/hour. We’re aiming for sustainable, profitable businesses that allow us to live comfortably. And that requires charging appropriately from the start.
Your Pricing Checklist
- ✓ Calculate your actual costs (living expenses + taxes + benefits + emergency fund)
- ✓ Account for non-billable time (aim for 50-60% billable hours)
- ✓ Include paid time off in your calculations
- ✓ Choose a pricing model (packages > retainers > hourly)
- ✓ Research industry rates (but don’t be constrained by them)
- ✓ Create 2-3 package options at different price points
- ✓ Practice saying your prices out loud (until you’re comfortable)
- ✓ Set a review date to reassess pricing (every 6-12 months)
The Bottom Line
Pricing isn’t just math—it’s positioning, psychology, and value communication.
Start by covering your costs. Then add margin for the value you provide. Then adjust based on demand and confidence.
The goal isn’t to be the cheapest option. The goal is to charge enough that you can deliver exceptional work without burning out, pay yourself fairly, and build a business that actually supports your life.
Your expertise is valuable. Price it accordingly.
Additional Resources
- Harvard Business Review – Pricing Guide for Consultants
- Consulting Success – Consulting Fees Guide
- Foundr – How Much to Charge for Consulting
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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended as financial or legal advice. Consult with a qualified accountant or financial advisor before making business decisions.